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lonewolfz28 Honored member

Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2142 Location: Lake Luzerne, NY
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 10:28 am Post subject: Sad News |
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| Quote: | This morning at 2:00 AM, I received the worst phone call imagineable - The Paramedics were at my parent's house working on my dad. I quickly drove as fast as I could go and arrived only to hear that the Paramedics had pronounced him dead. We are all in a state of shock at this and lost for the moment. There's a lot of work to be done, I'll be out of touch and out of sorts for a while. I'll probably won't be around for a while but will check in from time to time.
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Sorry to hear that Goobee. I wish you and your family all the best to come to terms with this loss. Take care my friend. |
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pinky Diwata

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Polo Esteemed member

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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 11:06 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry for such a bad news.
All my thoughts for you and your family.
Take care. _________________ Have fun and sport ! |
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vato Well regarded

Joined: 31 Jan 2008 Posts: 435 Location: Mariella Frostrups Mahogany Coin
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:30 pm Post subject: |
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| Commiserations. I've been there, it's not fun, but I hope you and your family get through this all the closer to each other. Best wishes... |
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goobee Flunky

Joined: 06 Sep 2004 Posts: 5775 Location: Sunny California
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Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 1:11 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for all the kind words. I am coping so far but it's tough. The real test will be next Tuesday, when my dad is laid to rest. That is when finality will finally set in and I'll realize his departure is permanent.
Once again, thanks. _________________
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TC Highly regarded

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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Sorry to hear the sad news, stay strong for the rest of your family. |
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goobee Flunky

Joined: 06 Sep 2004 Posts: 5775 Location: Sunny California
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 1:19 pm Post subject: |
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Well it's all over. I delivered my Eulogy strong and never lost composure.
Now to worry about my mom who has gone from strong to frail in a blink of an eye.  _________________
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lonewolfz28 Honored member

Joined: 11 Sep 2004 Posts: 2142 Location: Lake Luzerne, NY
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 9:08 pm Post subject: |
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Again, good luck Goobs. Hopefully your Mom will bounce back. Time heals all wounds and all of that. It's up to her to move on and find a reason to continue without him. All you can really do is support her and gently point her down the path.
Was Joe and the crew able to make it home this soon after going to Japan? |
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goobee Flunky

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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:35 pm Post subject: |
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Not yet, he made a side trip and deployed to Kuwait. He's coming back soon and will make a visit to CA before going to Japan.
My sister took mom down to the cemetary today to visit dad. She cried a little, not too bad. I think she's coming around. _________________
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lonewolfz28 Honored member

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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 7:06 am Post subject: |
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Better Kuwait than Afghanistan or Iraq again.
That's good to hear on your Mom. Hopefully she keeps coming around. |
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goobee Flunky

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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, that was a big contrast to a few days ago. This was a couple days before the memorial service, I took her down to the supermarket to buy a few things. She stopped and stared silently at the Valentines' display with the hearts, teddy bears, and stuff for a long time. I nearly lost it watching her.  _________________
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Polo Esteemed member

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Posted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 1:39 am Post subject: |
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I hope time will do the job.
Sad days to go through...  _________________ Have fun and sport ! |
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